Good Vibrations Unschooling Conference Recap

Oh the excitement! Good Vibrations was our very first unschooling conference...and it just happened to be in one of our favorite places in the country, San Diego! We made plans and more plans and at one point it looked like Matt wasn't going to be able to join us due to work conflicts, but he was able to come a few days late and we were able to celebrate life together as a family!

Upon arriving at the hotel, I was reunited with one of my favorite people ever and a dear friend, the fabulous Tiffani. And at her side, hoop master mama Brianna. This was my first time meeting Brianna after hearing about her and "knowing" her on Facebook. We hit it off immediately and the three of us had way too much fun. The entire weekend after that point was a blur of laughter, hooping bliss, poolside margaritas (well, not me obviously... but I lived vicariously), and oh yeah...how could I forget? Unschooling inspiration!

There were so many amazing speakers at this conference...such wisdom from seasoned unschoolers. This room always had my favorite sessions...roundtable is definitely more my style than a classroom setup. Tiffani was leading a discussion on "play" in this photo. And true to her style, she handed out wigs for everyone to wear :)

I thought that I would go to a lot more of the workshops than I did...but we ended up "UNconferencing" a bit :) I had rich, relational experiences with friends just sitting around the pool and talking about our unschooling and real life. We learned so much by watching and soaking up each different family's style of parenting. Every one has different ideas and ideals and how they live it out is so interesting. Much more fun than reading about their lives online :) Matt was able to attend several of the "Dads sessions" and came away feeling more informed and confident in his role as an unschooling dad. It was fun to hear about all the great discussions that they had.

We weren't the only ones making new friends. Within a few minutes of registering, Lucy struck up a friendship with Grace, another little girl at the conference. Every time she saw her, she would exclaim..."FRIEND!!"

Speaking of FRIENDS...we also got to hang out with Mike Hedge after not seeing him since Texas. He was the official photographer for the event...and he did an amazing job! (He has posted nearly 1,000 photos of the conference here). And I finally got to meet a blog friend, Jess, who is currently living in Japan! She brought her mom with her and she and MY mom hit it off and had many long talks/walks while they were there.

Bella reveled in the freedom that came along with being at the conference. She went by herself to sessions that she was interested in and loved being with her new friends in their hotel rooms and around the pool. It was great to see her blossom in so many ways while we were there. She had good conversations with girls who had experienced public school prior to unschooling...so good for her to hear their thoughts first hand.

One of everyone's favorite workshops was the "International Candy Tasting" event! I'm sure you can understand why :)

This was our beach potluck that got moved back to the hotel after a power outage. It affected all of Southern California for 12 hours and caused a sewage spill at the beach (among other problems!) We didn't mind though...what could be better than crowd-sourced food, sunshine, and friends!? We just pressed on...and we all breathed a sigh of relief at 2am when our lights and air conditioners popped back on!

My mom came with us so that I would have extra help...and she and Lucy had lots of fun around the pool and playing dress up! Both girls could not get enough of the water...the common cry from our room was "let's go to the pool!" With every day consisting of sunshine and 80 degrees, we gladly obliged.

The pool area was a constant hooping mecca...there was always some hoop action going on somewhere. So much fun. As a side note, I ran into Baxter and his friend Kara the day we arrived as we all hooped poolside. So random. They were there decompressing from Burning Man...although I'm not sure how relaxing it was with all of us crazy unschoolers running around the hotel! :)

On the last night, Matt, Tiffani, Brianna, and I went to a delish little Mexican joint near Torrey Pines State Beach...and then we headed over for a sunset photo shoot. When we got there, we were reminded not to touch the poop water :)

The light was to die for...and it was a sweet time with my honey.

I love these girls so. We had so many other fun experiences during the weekend...too many to detail here. But they shall live on in our memories!

The day we left, we headed up to Encinitas and played at Moonlight State Beach. Perfect sunshine. Perfect moments. So thankful. We're already dreaming of next year! I leave my heart in California every time I fly away...

*see my iPhone album, the photos featured here, and more!

All The Wonderful Things

Life has been full and wonderful...and I wanted to share some of our most recent fun with you! This weekend Bella took a tree climbing class (part of the Longmont Parks and Rec Program) and she had SO much fun. This isn't your regular 'ol "tree climbing" though...

Once you get your harness on, you use your arms to pull yourself all the way to the top of the tree and then you release the knot to come back down.

She was a natural...and loved every  moment. Matt is even talking about getting our own tree climbing gear.

On a rainy day this week, we met our unschooling group at Bounce Town! It's a big warehouse with 6 large bounce houses in it for the kids to go wild. I like to crawl in there with them and bounce bounce bounce, but it doesn't take long before I get sick and dizzy!

I'm getting to know some really fun local mamas...it's so nice to build a connection here.

Another day, while we were cleaning up a bouquet of purple irises on the table, we decided to see if we could dye paper with them! They were wilting and we were going to throw them away...but instead, we threw them into the Vita-Mix with a little water and soaked our paper in it.

It turned out to be a beautiful shade of blue/violet. We had some good discussions about how people used to use plants, seeds, and flowers to make dyes all the time (and still do). I told Bella that's how they did it in the "olden days", and she said, "...you mean like in 1984?". Oh my.

Bella has been asking to set up a lemonade stand...so on the first sunny day this week, we brought out all the supplies and set up shop. She did well...but she did have to pay her "employees" their wages, so her profit was a little down. :) She was still happy with her results...she has such an entrepreneurial spirit!

Yesterday morning we decided to scope out a new breakfast spot in town and we settled on Two Dog Diner. It's a sweet little cafe tucked away in the Prospect area of Longmont. They have Bhakti chai there (which I am quite obsessed with right now) and even veggie sausage! We enjoyed some sweet family time together and we will definitely be going back!

Other activities from this weekend: I painted our TV-less corner and have a few little decorations in it. :) It's not quite done, but I will share it with you when it is! I picked up the supplies to paint our bedroom (finally!!). I'm SO excited to start it. Bella had a sleepover last night at her friend's house, which went splendidly. Today we enjoyed meeting with our house church family and had a relaxing afternoon.

We're looking forward to another lovely week.

Monday and Tuesday we're *hoping* to paint and hang curtains in our bedroom. We're having guests over for tacos on Wed. night. Thursday is Bella's last day of Raccoon Clan for the season and there will be a family potluck out on the land. Right after that we will leave for Iowa and drive back for my Grandma's estate sale. If you recall, she died just a few days before Lucy was born and I wasn't able to attend her funeral or have closure...so I am looking forward to getting back there. My entire family will be there, as well as Matt's parents who are driving down to see us.  We'll be there through Sunday.

Whew! Life speeds by so fast...I have to remind myself to stay in the moment so often! I love taking time throughout the day to stop and really WATCH the girls faces and see what they are feeling. I also like to list all the things I am grateful for in that particular day...and that helps me too.

How do you stay "present" and in the moment when life is rushing by? I would love to hear your thoughts...

 

 

Raccoon Clan

Open Road

Every Thursday morning we wake up and drive across the breathtaking Colorado meadows into the foothills.

House and Horse

We pass our favorite horse...

Running Free

...and soon we arrive at the place where children run free.

Explorer

...where they find confidence and appreciation for God's creation.

Circle Up

It's Raccoon Clan!

Raccoon Clan is one of the programs available through "Her Feet On The Earth", a non-profit with a "vision to help raise young people who are ready to meet life's challenges and be of service in the world: youth who have a positive sense of themselves as young women and men; who know what their gifts are; feel deeply connected with nature; have strong community support; and are full of resilience and vitality."

So what does Bella do at Raccoon Clan? She explores the mysteries and wonders of nature. She wanders along the stream banks. She searches for good things to eat. She makes tracks, plays games in the field and shares stories.

Each week she has new adventures and nourishes her connection with nature by learning about the animals, birds, plants and trees around her and learns important skills to help her feel at home in nature, such as fire making, navigation, shelter building, archery, and more. (paraphrased from HFOTE)

We drop her off at 9:00 a.m. and pick her up at 3:00 p.m. There is a tipi on the land and so much beauty to explore. Lorene and Mary are fantastic with all of the kids and so mindful about what they are teaching.

I have noticed such a difference in her level of independence and how she interacts with others...and she LOVES her new friends there. She talks about going all week and loves packing her lunch for the big day. As you can see from the photo below...she's pretty excited about it.

We are thrilled to have found this program and hope to continue in it for a long time.

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